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Julian : integral healer VA Tech Tragedy: Integral vs. New Age Perspectives

VA Tech Tragedy: Integral vs. New Age Perspectives

Posted on Apr 27th, 2007 by Julian : integral healer Julian
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OK so I wasn't going to talk about Virginia Tech. We all know what happened, we all know it was a horrific, painful, senseless day that will live on in the devastated memories of people personally involved for the rest of their lives. We all know that the lives of innocent young men and women were ended prematurely and that this is tragic and obscene....

Or do we?

Background


Many of you know me as a vocal critic of the New Age. My scathing review of The Secret has become something of a calling card for me. Many of you also know me as an interpreter of Ken Wilber's integral Theory - which I think is not only a brilliant, rigorous and wide-reaching exploration of intelligent analysis of both the inner and outer worlds, but also a timely antidote to the superficial but uber-popular fantasies of the New Age.

Recently I did a piece on the prevalence of New Age confusion even amongst Integrally-informed people at Zaadz, listing the erroneous assessment in I-I newsletter Holons of New Age personal growth blogger (and Secret endorser) Steve Pavlina - and the subsequent defense of his stoner metaphysical assertions that:

1) we all of us create the reality of child abuse by thinking about it.

2) there are no other people's intentions competing with our own as we attempt to manifest our reality using The Secret's bogus "Law of Attraction" - because all other people and their intentions are really just part of our dream.

He then goes on to expound upon a very bad mangling of Philosophy 101 ideas that basically amounts to reductionist solipsism.

Now of course this comes as no surprise to me. What passes for spiritual philosophy amongst people invested in the New Age is virtually defined by what philosophers dating back to Aristotle recognize as category errors, what Wilber calls Pre/Trans Fallacies, what any decent first year student in a good liberal arts program would recognize as a lack of honest critical thinking and what transpersonal psychologists like Jack Kornfield, John  Welwood and Stan Grof have long recognized as spiritual bypassing - in which we bypass the very real psychological conflict and pain and existential angst of life in search of soothing spiritual fantasy and disconnected numbness - and then call the resulting fragmented dissociation "transcendence."

People like Welwood, Wilber, Grof and others have described this syndrome and suggested antidotes to it dating back to at least the 1980's. These are lessons that we have learned in the burgeoning spiritual fascination that followed the 1960's - and they are one's that should be taken to heart by anyone serious about sharing/facilitating meaningful spirituality with others.

When these lessons are not taken to heart, and when sound critical thinking and psychological honesty  are not allied with spirituality - we get the above kind of mistakes - and these have serious consequences for people trying to apply very bad ideas to how they live/interpret their actual lives. this is not about abstract theory - what we believe indeed does have consequences in the real world - just not in the magical way that New Agers imagine...

But maybe I had been too hard on Pavlina, after all Integrally-informed people like Holons editor Marco Morelli, hyperlinking blogmeister C4Chaos, the brilliant Matthew, supposedly "post-Wilber" Integral guy P'Sal, smart I-I Pod regular Pelle,  and Wilber's good friend Joe Perez seem to think so - they like they guy's work. They say I am being to harsh on him. Some disagree with Colin Bigelow's assessment (and Wilber's agreement) of Pavlina's perspective  as definitely not Integral. (Scroll down and look for Bigelow's incisive piece: Holons Critique: Are Schwyzer and Pavlina Integral?)

Well - I sat with that.

Then Came VA Tech.

The day of the execution-style massacre of some 32 people and suicide of the mentally ill gunman, Pavlina did it again.

This time it's worse:

This time he denies that the events are tragic - because this is after all a "subjective human label." He goes on to grandiosely accept full responsibility for the events as a manifestation of his thoughts and suggests his readers do the same. He extracts some kind of odd personal numerological meaning (no doubt a whoa, duuuude! profound synchronistic message from the universe meant just for him) from the gunman's age - 19 and the number of people dead - 33.

You see when Pavlina was 19 he was in a jail cell and when he was 33 he started his really successful website - both turning points in his life that are obviously being mirrored back to him by the dream he is manifesting with his thoughts in which VA Tech appears to have happened......I mean that makes perfect sense if you squint your third eye just right, doesn't it?!

Now I have  three questions for Pavlina:

1) When did you go off your meds?

2) What kind of drugs did you take instead while you were in Sedona?

3) Did a writer from The Onion hack your site and post this stuff?

It's almost too good of a parody. How do these guys get taken seriously?

Now the fascinating thing is that even in the face of this kind of absurdity, several of the players (as evidenced by this discussion) in the Integrally-informed blogosphere don't see how problematic this is....(or how at odds with actual Integral Theory - not to mention common sense.) Wow!

And Then There's Stuart Davis

Prominent Integral commentator Stuart Davis was appalled by Pavlina's schtick. Thankfully...

He mentions it briefly in this intelligent, beautiful, respectful video about the VA Tech killings.


The Stuart Davis Show - Episode 10: The Tragedy at VA Tech




Even after this several of our Zaadz Integralites keep defending Pavlina's position. Weird. they even said that Davis was over-reacting. Perhaps, they say, people like Stuart and I need to do some serious shadow-work so we don't get so triggered by this stuff. Oh dear...

Look people - no-one's thoughts literally created the reality of VA Tech., 911, Aushwitz etc - nor do they create winning the lottery, being born into millions or any of the other random aspects of this confounding and unfair life.

More than anything three things created this event:

1) Mental illness - most likely a genetic paranoid psychosis/schizophrenia with various possible social, biographical, environmental and familial aggravating factors.

2) Bad gun control laws and/or enforcement - Cho should not have been able to get his hands on guns - especially as someone with a psychiatric history.

3) A lack of oversight, social structure and academic institutional channels for teachers to get help for, and protection from,  a kid like Cho.

Even if the whole New Age community sat up the night before synchronisticallly visualizing sexy millionaire bunnies disappearing down quantum rabbit holes while drinking water from bottles with the words "abundance" and "I am loved" stuck onto them, only to emerge into the astral realm in which Steve Pavlina's dream dissolved and the numerological significance of everyone's birthdate multiplied by the golden mean and divided by their past life brownie points was revealed in a blaze of ascended master channeled information - the events of VA Tech. would still have happened, and they would still be tragic and senseless. Sorry.

To end - I echo Davis' assertion that clinical narcissism and sociopathic numbness should not be confused with authentic spiritual insight - as has been done by Pavlina in this most recent gaffe and is being incorrectly perceived by those who defend it/his work.


Stay tuned for a forthcoming post I have been sitting on about the serious spiritual problem of the new age for the Integral vision being brought into the world....
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otter : Spiritual Off-Roader
about 1 hour later
otter said

Thanks for posting this. The mother and child at the end of the clip summed it all up for me. Fill the world with love. Love others. Love youself.

Bob : Head the gong
about 2 hours later
Bob said

I agree with you a hundred percent on this one JW. It seems so obvious to me that Pavlina’s perspective is confused, it’s just pointless for me to argue about it. The more interesting and important issue, as you pointed out, is that highly intelligent and sensitive people within the integral and Zaadz communities cannot agree on something so basic to what you would call a mature, 21st century spiritual outlook. It just boggles my mind, but what can we do aside from continued honest, compassionate dialogue?

~Matthew : Youthful Maturity
about 3 hours later
~Matthew said

Hi Julian,

I don't deny that claiming your thoughts created a VA massacre is an unhealthy thing to do.  What I am concerned about in these analyses is the absence of one very important perspective:  Steve's.  Without involving him in the debate, I can't really involve myself in it, either way, as far as defending or supporting him.  I think analyzing his blog, post-for-post is fine.  And, in that sense, over a long period of analysis, you can form an opinion on the “altitude” of his blog.  But, it still may not be an accurate analysis of him.  Taking one post and making a categorical assessment, is a simple mistake of over-generalization.  Reading ~C's blog on this matter, one may in fact come to a completely different conclusion than you have. 

I'm not saying either is right.  I'm saying include Steve in the debate.  That is my position.

~M

Julian : integral healer
about 3 hours later
Julian said

hey matthew - yes that makes perfect sense thanks for clarifying.

thanks for distancing yourself from pavlina's position on this.

i have repeated in several different places that my criticism is based solely on steve's writing and therefore is a criticism of the blog persona of steve pavlina and what it says.

as for including him, i have contacted steve and linked him to a previous discussion and invited him to do a z-bate with me. he has responded with suggestions that the integral community is just jealous of the secret's success, that calling his positions magical thinking is childish and ignored my invitations….he also had some cogent things to say about the overuse of color coding etc which i actually agree with - though it is convenient shorthand for a lot of complex ideas…

but i think you are actually off-base here - steve has participated - by writing the blog posts we are referencing. he is also i am sure aware of the criticisms and free to respond at any time…..

and as to the one post thing; dood! how many posts do you need that suggest the kind of things i listed above to make an assessment? come on :O)


if i say that i think the sky is orange and you then say i read that julian thinks the sky is orange - what a misperception! would it be a good argument for mary sue to say - now, now matthew i think you are overgeneralizing matters here julian actually has really good things to say about the varieties of top  soil in his garden and how you can grow reallly nice tomatoes when the sky is orange - in fact he actually shows signs of intuiting in some quite deep ways that the sky might be blue and is just saying that the sky is orange because his orange sunglass wearing readers feel better when he says so…..

you would say - i don't care - he says the sky is orange and that's just plain nutty - right?

my evaluation/analysis of pavlina's position on VA Tech and The Secret is based 100% on what he actually wrote and published about it….

what's the problem?

~Matthew : Youthful Maturity
about 3 hours later
~Matthew said

but i think you are actually off-base here - steve has participated - by writing the blog posts we are referencing. he is also i am sure aware of the criticisms and free to respond at any time…..

True enough.  But he hasn't.  He has said, though, that he writes for a varied group of people.  And you will admit that writing for people who enjoyed “The Secret” would be a move to include a rather large demographic, wouldn't you? 

and as to the one post thing; dood! how many posts do you need that suggest the kind of things i listed above to make an assessment? come on :O)

At least 25, in succession for a good beginning sample size.  I think analyzing 25 of his most recent posts would lend itself to a better assessment of his blog as a whole.  And, btw, I don't follow Steve's blog very closely, so I have no idea what his last 25 posts were about.  So, my challenge to you is to read each of his last 25 blog posts, in their entirety, and see if you still hold the same opinion.  I would be genuinely curious to see what you come up with.

Julian : integral healer
about 3 hours later
Julian said

i cant decide if a) thats too good of a challenge to pass up or b) if i would resent you mightily by the time i got to post number 12, but you're on matt - my only condition - you do the same - we'll compare notes tomorrow shall we?

:O)

~Matthew : Youthful Maturity
about 4 hours later
~Matthew said

Fuck!  I hate you!

Also, it may take me more than a day to do this.  Extremely busy with zPro right now…  But by the day after tomorrow, for sure ;)

Julian : integral healer
about 4 hours later
Julian said

hahaha - ok monday it  is!

oh and that one is getting tired matthew - there are better ways to write for an audience that would appreciate the secret than to endorse it…. i have said several times that especially if that is your audience and you in fact do have a belief system that is beyond the new age you would feel a responsibility to try and write something that both appealed to their level of consciousness and pointed out the pitfalls of crap like the secret - why so generous, buddy!?

pavlina's belief system is new age. this has already been demonstrated. but i will go ahead and get more samples…. :O)

new age with lots of other cool bells and whistle's and even a little integral understanding - but still new age and the posts i am referencing are plenty evidence of that…

there is nothing confusing or requiring of careful high-end AQAL analysis about that fact.

~Matthew : Youthful Maturity
about 4 hours later
~Matthew said

I'm not being generous.  And you have to take into consideration “types” here, as well.  A type 9 on the enneagram, no matter what altitude, would not want to attack a movie that his already-known demographic appreciates.  He would, instead, find ways of deconstructing the unhealthy aspects of it, even if it sounds to be an endorsement.  This is what some on P'SAL's blog say he has done/does do.  I hypothesize that you may be being a little narrow in your focus.  :o)

Pelle : dancing
about 5 hours later
Pelle said

I state my position here.

peace
pelle

Julian : integral healer
about 5 hours later
Julian said

i have yet to see any believable post-new age deconstruction of anything regarding the secret from pavlina.  and his tapdance around the problems with it raised by his smarter studentsas well as his comments on VA Tech suggest that he wouldn't be able to identify the unhealthy aspects of the secret if they bit him in the ass!

the comments he made on joe's blog which c4 devoted a whole post to are hardly a deconstruction - and be careful because when you say “the unhealthy aspects” it sounds like you think there are healthy aspects to the secret - which i trust you do not actually think….

ummm yea you are being generous and giving him a break because you like him - but put your critical thinking glasses back on buddy….

man this guy has some fanboys, huh! :O)

i will start with the posts suggested above by your comrade in arms c4….and make my way through another 23….

oh i look forward to your opinion on monday matt.

Julian : integral healer
about 5 hours later
Julian said



ok c4 - the two posts you chose to showcase SP are quite beautifully written. good writer! he is obviously a super bright guy with a lot of interesting things to say. though he is writting on a different subject - and quite nicely, the traces of the blatantly new age misakes he makes are apparent here too though:

“(As I’ve mentioned in previous articles, one solution is to center your life around service to others, and trust that the receiving part will take care of itself.  The focus on genuine value creation and contribution tends to manifest happiness, wealth, and a sense of meaning in one’s life without too much struggle or effort – IF you can really let go and trust the process.  Yet most of us are socially conditioned to overlook the simplicity of this connection.  It can seem counterintuitive, so we resist applying it for any length of time.  But from the right vantage point, the effectiveness of this solution is readily apparent.  Having applied it for some time now myself, I can attest that being happy, fulfilled, and enjoying financial abundance is rather easy if you just steadfastly focus on helping people to the best of your ability.)”

this is a version of the new age belief that is you are truly surrendered and trusting you will be taken care of financially - the corolorary to this is that if you are not effortlessly attaining abundance the fault lies somewhere in your lack of trust……

watch this faulty premise show up in the thought-created-reality stuff he espouses about things like child abuse and mentallly ill gunmen….

this is pure green - of the kind that you and others incorrectly interpret as a kind of second tier flex-flow:

Our beliefs act as lenses. These lenses can help us see things we can’t otherwise see, but they can also block us from seeing parts of reality. I see a huge part of personal development as the study of these lenses — these belief systems. There are an infinite number of lenses, so the quest never ends, but the more lenses you examine personally, the more you understand about the nature of reality and your role within it.”

the over emphasis on beliefs as being central to growth/spirituality is a new age indicator…

likewise here:

“A lower power would be like a field that is able to respond to your intentions, sort of like “the force” in Star Wars or what some people refer to as “source.” You can pray to either type of power, but in the first case you’re asking, and in the second case, you’re declaring. Many people, myself included, have noted that declarative prayer works better than no prayer and better than asking prayer. I see it mainly as putting out an intention.”

as i might have guessed - this is the biography of a smart guy who likes to turn everything around in his mind, but apparently thinks that adopting new beliefs or thinking about things in new ways is “spiritual” - no mention of actual practices, healing breakthroughs, the psyche, etc….and the scent of spirit guides and astral realms is unfortunately nearby as a substitute.

this again is part of the big new age mistake. he just happens to be a very like-able and gifted perpetrator of the mistake  - wrappped up in a lot of intelligent ideas - many of which unfortunately conflate various scientific  observations with  ideas about consciousness and how we experience reality…. what the bleep, anyone?!

~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker
about 5 hours later
~C4Chaos said

what i find problematic about your approach, Julian, is your holier than thou tone. and now you're making this discussion like one camp versus another, e.g “comrade in arms”, jeesh. is that what this is to you? a battle? an intellectual war? oh i get it. you're just being sarcastic :)

like this one:

“Now I have  three questions for Pavlina:

1) When did you go off your meds?

2) What kind of drugs did you take instead while you were in Sedona?

3) Did a writer from The Onion hack your site and post this stuff?

It's almost too good of a parody. How do these guys get taken seriously?”


now that is the kind of tone that would get Pavlina into a constructive dialogue. right?

seriously, how would you engage a person if they start a conversation like that with you?

even that kind of tone and personal insults have no place in a political debate. let's all get a grip and practice what we preach about right intention, right speech, and right action.

my two cents.

~C

Julian : integral healer
about 6 hours later
Julian said

come one c4 i joked all the way through those comment exchanges and both matt and i were in that spirit…..

i called you comrades in arms because you are both coming to SP's defense…

it's all in fun and actually i am injecting some levity and some acknowledgment of the roles we are playing as we struggle with meaningful ideas…

i do take this seriously, but i don't feel like it is a war at all - i do feel like we are all adults and can handle the rough and tumble… the love underneath that is unconditional - the distaste for certain ideas and their consequences notwithstanding - don't confuse the two.

give me the sarcastic humor that you quoted back to me any day over the sincere spiritual  obscenities i and stuart have quoted from pavlina.

i actually quite like that piece of sarcastic humor and i think it makes it's point better than two paragraphs of serious analysis….

pavlina's numerological narcissism and suggestion that either:

 a)  he “manifested” the massacre or
b) it's all part of his dream and calling it a “tragedy” is “addiction to drama” or merely a “subjective human label” should be equated to a brain chemistry imbalance of some kind - don't you think?

perhaps you have an interpretation of these actual statements that i am missing? (go on have a go…)

oops - excuse me did i come off as having some strong feelings about how we make sense of a mass murder?! 

oh thats right you're supporting the guy who has stated that he has virtually no feelings about it - because he knows it's all part of the dream he is manifesting for himself - complete with  personalized numerological messages from the Star Wars force “lower power”…….

a little feeling might be just what's needed here, huh?

ummmm you call me holier than thou - and then link me to a piece about buddhist moral precepts?

c4crackin' me up.

Julian : integral healer
about 6 hours later
Julian said

also: this is a predictable pattern with you and others in this tricky new age territory. when we get into an area that you have no good arguments for you begin to attack my tone… stick to the point.

do you have anything to say about the actual points i am making?

do have any analysis of what pavlina actually said in the posts stuart and i are appalled by?

i am reading through his blog as suggested and get why you would like and want to defend him - do you get why i find these instances so problematic?

are you interested in why i might come off as outraged by them?

~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker
about 7 hours later
~C4Chaos said

thanks for clarifying. but let me make this clear. Pavlina's position is not entirely my position. i prefer not to say too much about this incident. also check out my first ever comment about this on Hokai's blog. i started the thread to get more perspectives on this. and the more i read up on yours and other people's take, the more i add to my own.

another reason why i started the thread is to give I-I a dose of healthy criticism. it would've been a more constructive dialogue if they approached Pavlina first. like Paul mentioned, the IN video could've stand on it's own without dragging Pavlina into the mix. here's what i wrote on Pauls' blog:

“anyway, what i meant by the skillful means part was that it would've been better if the sequence of events went something like this: IN contacted Pavlina, talked to the dude and asked him to explain his seemingly reductionistic and not so compassionate post before he got criticized on IN. this way, IN/I-I's criticisms would have more perspectives taken into consideration.

i think, from the point of view of Pavlina, he got alienated more than a number of times already, starting from the Holons, to the KenWilber.com blog post, and now the IN video and audio discussions. if i were Pavlina, i would think twice before agreeing for an the interview too.”


as far as i'm concerned, we're treating Pavlina like an “IT” projecting our own inadequecies and anger based on a few of his blog posts. jeesh, as if that would make the shootings less tragic.

i took the time to contact Pavlina and ask him (respectfully and not in a combative way) questions that would shed light on his understanding and intentions of his support for the LoA and to give him some “air time” on this very very very small nook in cyberspace. he agreed. so i'm looking forward to his answers to get to know him more. imho, that's a lot better than arguing over and overanalyzing every word of his blog post.

in the meantime, you might find this thread on Pavlian's forum interesting. if you really want to debate him, you can sign up there too.

~C

P.S. i linked to the piece about buddhist moral precepts because it illustrates my point of view. i link to get my point across without using too much words. i talk in hyperlinks.

Bob : Head the gong
about 8 hours later
Bob said

If Pavlina didn’t get riled up over 32 people shot dead, he’s certainly not going to give a rat’s behind about Julian’s “tone.” In fact, to be consistent, he would probably see Julian’s “holier than thou” tone as evidence that he – Pavlina that is – is feeling morally self-righteous deep down within himself. All Pavlina needs to do is some more inner work and Julian’s negative attitude will fade away like a bad dream.

Wait… That’s a complete load of wrong-headed nonsense.

–Bob (Just call me Dick)

~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker
about 11 hours later
~C4Chaos said

Julian,

you may also find his link interesting. it's a link to all of Steve Pavlina's post on his discussion forum wherein he answers the questions and criticisms from his readers. check it out:

http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/search.php?searchid=188090

here's a quote from one of his posts:

“Subjective reality is simply an alternative lens for viewing reality. But it is not truth itself, and I do not consider it part of my identity any more than Christianity or atheism. Be sure to read the latest article on Spiritual Depth Perception for more on that, or listen to podcast #13.

FWIW your reaction is really about solipsism. I get that a lot because I define subjective reality a bit differently than most people would. When I write from a subjective point of view, my point of reference when I say “I” is consciousness itself, not one of its avatars who happens to be named Steve Pavlina. I'm not saying that Steve is God. I'm saying that consciousness is responsible for everything that occurs within it, and when I apply the lens of subjective reality, I identify with that consciousness. I probably need to do more to clarify that identity shift, but I did explain it in this post (see the answer to the first question):
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/200…-reality-qa-3/

and while you're at it, maybe you want to explain to this guy too how mistaken he is with his interpretation of AQAL :)

~C

ebuddha : Non-Dual tech trainer
about 11 hours later
ebuddha said

Julian,

Since I didn't get a response from over at Paul's place, I'll try here -

a.  I think what a lot of people “see”, in Steve Pavlina, is the execution on the promise of “intentional manifestion”, where inner changes, then are reflected in outer reality.   In terms of Steve executing in self-change, he does that well.

to what degree is that true?  to what degree does intentional manifestation WORK?  You don't need to have the answer to this question, RIGHT NOW,  of course, I'm just bringing it up as food for thought, and as an element of discussion.

b. There is, to a degree, a strawman discussion regarding your discussion of Steve Pavlina's version of Subjective Reality.  It is clearly NOT your parents (or my parents, really) version of New Age Subjective Reality - a couple of quotes from the same article -

In my opinion the subjective reality interpretation is more empowering than the objective one.  I’m not suggesting that one perspective is right and the other is wrong.  I am, however, suggesting that the subjective perspective is more likely to lead to positive action that produces real change, change that actually looks good from both perspectives.  Remember that for change to occur, it must be personal.  You must change.

I have no probem, personally, with the above sentiment - do you?

Also:

When viewed in the right light, the subjective and objective perspectives can be congruent.  You just have to understand that a subjective change always precedes an objective change.  It’s ineffective to attempt to force an external change without making the internal change.  For example, it would make little sense for me to attack violence in the world as long as I still have unresolved violence within me.  Fighting violence with violence only begets more violence.  However, the very act of addressing the internal violence is what manifests the external solution

I have only a small problems with the above statement.  As Thich Nhat Hanh says, “Peace is every step”. 

Now, do I have problems between the conflation of the narcissistic three-year old (I create the world! It's all MINE! ) and the deeper place where all is not separate?  Yes, of course, Stewie from Family Guy is not the arbiter of reality, although again, Pavlina doesn't seem to be saying this, exactly.  Remember the first thing he says on his site is “Self-Development is Hard Work”.  How narcisstic is that?

  Do I think there is a place to hold “the Other” responsible for crimes they commit?  Also, yes, of course.

But I believe Pavlina also has something regarding the “outrage meter”, aspect of things.  I said over on my blog, 10 times the violent deaths that occured in the VA Tech massacre, happened in Iraq, in one week.  

But the human consciousness does something funny, whereby far away tragedy is just that - far away.  While near tragedy, is larger in the awareness.

Lastly, again, what is your opinion of psychic phenomena?  Do you believe it exists, or not?

thanks for reading, all who made it through that…

ebuddha : Non-Dual tech trainer
about 12 hours later
ebuddha said

Just spent some time following c4's link.  I'm backpedaling now, a bit, as Steve's pretty smug in is responses to people in his forum.  Like, “I'm totally cool with it all”, like, for reals!”

Made me step back a bit there…I now have to reduce my appreciation for Pavlina's stuff, to the mystery of how intentional manifestation works.  As the chaos people call it,  “casting spells”. 

At some point, someone will integrate the “rules” on that level of reality, into integral philosophy, without all the New Age crap and narcissistic magical thinking that usually comes along with it. 

But at this point, the integral crowd doesn't address the mechanics of that level of consciousness.  

If I were to muse, things to take into account -

a.  You think about a person, and - boom - they call.
b.  You need a solution to a problem, and out of the blue, a person you talk to gives you the perfect solution
c.  After doing the work to get a new job, you let go a bit, even though you didn't find the perfect job, and then the job shows up.
d.  You write down the list of the “perfect woman for you”, and within two weeks, meet that woman, who has the qualities you were looking for.  (did this myself, it worked.  Of course, there are OTHER qualities that I didn't think about, that of course caused some friction!)
e.  I mentioned this to you before, but the claim by Grant Morrison (cool guy by the way), who says he gets “results” from any spell he does, without fail, within 3 weeks.

At any rate, I'm not going to throw the evidence of these “synchronicities” out the window. I'm not. 

I'm also not going to throw out evolutionary theory, developmental theory, social theory, or confuse this “magical level” we are talking about, with the narcissistic “I create reality” crowd, or with actual realization of Oneness.

But, I will say this to you, again and again - the kernel of what is true in magic/new age/subjective reality - what I've detailed above - NEEDS TO BE ADDRESSED by integral theory.

Lucidity : Designer of Life
about 12 hours later
Lucidity said

seriously, without even understanding integral jargon or new ageness, Pavlina's POV about the shootings seem completely insane to me. 

i don't even know if any of this mumbo jumbo ” i create reality” needs to be explained by integral theory at all. it doesn't make any sense even from a common sense pov.

so  i have no idea why people are mesmerized by LOA at all. it's really interestingly confusing to me.

i think LOA is lacking in any logic as in being completely blind to any natural laws of cause and effect. it completely twists and turns it inside out and upside down. i don't get it and probably never will.

Julian : integral healer
about 12 hours later
Julian said

c4classy - and funny too….

i hear what you are saying buddy and look forward to your interview with steve.

ebuddha there is as far as i am concerned no kernel of truth in the new age.

yes intentions have some effect, yes serendipitous events occur, yes when you are open and giving off good vibes doors open that might otherwise have been closed. none of that is evidence of the crazy beliefs that are so commonplace amongst people who claim the descriptor of being spiritual.

as i have said - the half truth is worse than the outright lie.

the enw age distorts, oversimplifies and confuses some fairly profound truths and renders them infantile, inflated, and completely ungrounded in reality in a way that perpetuates fragmentation, blaming the victim, and denying truth.

jonny bardo : imagicosmologist
about 12 hours later
jonny bardo said

Julian, it has been awhile! I see you're still up to your old tricks, eh? We've been down this road before…But I have to say I agree with much of what you say about Pavlina's perspective. I've barely scratched the surface of his blog but I can't say I'm all that enamoured with his self-help renderings.

regards,
An old “heruic” friend from the KWF ;-)

To ebuddha: I just lost an extremely profound reply to your posts that would've explained everything ;). But to recap as briefly as possible, very nice points–especially the last bit. Wilber's integral theory seems to overly emphasize “knowing” over “being,” with AQALists reducing (that is, explaining away) anything that does not fit into the Hallowed and Most Integral Model of All…takes one to know one!

It is also interesting to note that many of the New Age modalities that AQALists like to bash tend to be more enjoyed by women than by men. It is my opinion that Wilberian integralism is rather biased towards a more left-brained, cognitive, masculine orientation, whereby anything intuitive, imaginal, or creative is reduced to a lower level (e.g. magical), rather than recognizing that these aspects also develop as lines. It is yet another case of one (Wilber) conflating his own personal trajectory of development and personality type into a universal system (see, for example, Wilber's “core modules” that emphasize cognition, work, and striving, and don't touch upon creativity, play or devotion).

It would be easy to take what I believe is a mistaken view that anything post-rational must be rationally explainable. Transcending rationality does not mean extending rationality to all aspects of Being, nor that all aspects of Being must be rationally explainable or scientifically provable to have validity (take just about any New Age modality). We all make the mistake of confusing our own way of Knowing as representative of Being, yet in so doing reduce our experience of Being to a much rather sphere (our own Knowing, or ego).

Now certainly many of Steve Pavlina's assertions that Julian quotes are rather silly, even unethical. But as you say, ebuddha, this sort of “magical manifestation” works to some degree, in some way. It certainly seems that the happier I am, the more positive energy I “put out,” the more I receive in kind. We simply cannot reduce our experience to our intentions and, as Julian points out, there is a kind of cruelty to the New Age notion that we create our own reality, as if we are entirely responsible for everything that happens–or doesn't happen–in our lives.

ebuddha : Non-Dual tech trainer
about 13 hours later
ebuddha said

“the new age distorts, oversimplifies and cimfuses some fairly profound truths and renders them infantile, inflated…”

You know I don't disagree right?  Having a space case New Age hippy mom, who hid from her own issues using that nonsense, believe me, I get it.

If you  believe serendipitious events occur, then we aren't too far off, I think. 

But again, bottom line.  DO YOU BELIEVE THAT PEOPLE ARE PSYCHIC?

Yes or no? 

Again, at this point in your understanding - this doesn't need to be your “final answer”, in a who wants to be a milionaire type of way.

But it would be great, if you would answer, without tap-dancing, again, even if just a supposition for you now.

Because once you admit that, and you admit that “serendipitous events occur”, then philosophically, you've opened doors that can't be closed in a hermetically sealed integral philosophy.

Also, I actually do think, once someone can incorporate that level of synchronistic truths, pscyhic phenomena, into the whole of integralism, this will draw people away from the New Age. 

Right now, for those who are attracted to the New Age, when you say “there is no evidence of the crazy beliefs that are prevalent in the New Age”, those who have some experience with the sychronous level - a history of “fortuitous meetings”, pscyhic phenomena, etc - will simply dismiss you, as you dismiss their experience.   The same way I dismiss those atheists who dismiss spiritual experience as “mere fantasy”.  The integral way would be to INCORPORATE those half-truths, however bastardized they are, validate the experiences themselves, and THEN explain that their interpretation is incorrect, although the experience is valid.

At least, that's what I think.

ebuddha : Non-Dual tech trainer
about 13 hours later
ebuddha said

More Stevo, re: subjective reality -

Subjective reality is simply an alternative lens for viewing reality. But it is not truth itself, and I do not consider it part of my identity any more than Christianity or atheism. Be sure to read the latest article on Spiritual Depth Perception for more on that, or listen to podcast #13.

FWIW your reaction is really about solipsism. I get that a lot because I define subjective reality a bit differently than most people would. When I write from a subjective point of view, my point of reference when I say “I” is consciousness itself, not one of its avatars who happens to be named Steve Pavlina. I'm not saying that Steve is God. I'm saying that consciousness is responsible for everything that occurs within it, and when I apply the lens of subjective reality, I identify with that consciousness. I probably need to do more to clarify that identity shift, but I did explain it in this post (see the answer to the first question):

Aha!  see, I get to be right for a change - this isn't your (my) mother's subjective reality!

A bit slippery wording there, but not the strawman New Age Subjective Reality you righteously put down with FURIOUS anger!!  (I'm a fan of the Pulp Fiction).

On the other hand, there are other quotes you could pull out that show the opposite, of course.  But then we are talking past each other, and I'm starting to repeat myself, so I'm calling it for the night…

ebuddha : Non-Dual tech trainer
about 13 hours later
ebuddha said

Johnny Bardo,

I find nothing to disagree with, regarding that comment.  Clearly, you are a genteman of serene intelligence, refined taste, and subtle understanding.  Like myself, in case I didn't make that explicit.  (What?  narcissistic mutual self-admiration?  Be still, you buzzing inner voice!)

Ahem…

To sum up, yeah, I guess we are “more integral” than the other guys, aren't we?

:)

Julian : integral healer
about 14 hours later
Julian said

i know it seems like tapdancing ebuddha - but i think this is a different conversation and one i have addressed elsehwere… i am reluctant to get into it as i feel it may muddy the conversation at hand.

i have no reason to believe in psychic abilities and i think people mostly unconsciously trick themselves into the vast majority of synchronicities and psychic evidences. it’s a kind of wishful thinking combined with selective memory….

that said i am aware that there is some cautious empirical evidence for some possible occurences - but that certainly doesn’t open the door to 99.9% of what people want to believe about this stuff…..and no-one has claimed james randi’s $1 M prize yet - funny thing…

see my blog post called psychic delusions for more, as well as my zbate with c4chaos.

aaaaah heru is that you senor bardo?! welcome…….

Sanjuro : Digger
about 19 hours later
Sanjuro said

Hmm, maybe you are all punch-drunk by now and I can post something…. :)

From a Big Mind perspective, Steve appears stuck in the absolute, and Julian has whacked him with the stick. Now what are you all complaining about? I mean really. We might find personal enjoyment from showing up others faults, or we might find it from defending others, this is our normal relative way right? I like both, it feels good. Sometimes though we get stuck in that ‘reality’, and it’s the best news in the world to be shown. Don’t you think?

Steve goofed, end of story. Why he goofed, he identified with the absolute - where there is no cause and effect, pain and suffering, dualism, anything is possible. (No wonder mushrooms were so good!).

Steve, like all of us, has difficulty transcending and including the absolute and relative, and hopefully this dialog helps him see his attachment to the absolute, and how his words have cause and effect.

This dialog has certainly helped clarify my thoughts on the awful subject, and how we cannot get too caught up in our ideas of what life is. Life always teaches us something new. As Kagen points out, we are an evolving self.

In the meantime we can give people the Pepsi Challenge - Absolute or Relative?

Julian : integral healer
about 21 hours later
Julian said

well said sanjuro

and it is precisely that unbalanced drive toward the absolute/transcendent that becomes dissociative when it is not coupled with and embrace of the relative. in fact the story of that drive is inextricably intertwined with the story of wanting to escape from the immense struggle of the relative world we actually all without exception have to live and die in every single moment.  what we hear in steve's  comments is classic denial of/dissociation from suffering wrapped in the cloak of spiritual concepts.

it is also highly problematic when the absolute that is being clung to is more conceptual than based in serious disciplined practice and mentorship by guides who know the difference between pre/trans, dissociation/transcendence, denial/equanimity etc… i don't care how smart or well-written you are - these pitfallls are there for all of us and have been well mapped (and fallen into in order to map them) by wilber, kornfield, welwood, chodron et al… in fact this is the gift of the transpersonalists, integral theorists and east-west integrators of the last 40 years - it's growing edge stuff!

SP commits the standard new age mistake of thinking you can read about the non-dual, have a couple trippy moments while thinking about it - albeit with an obviously very bright mind - and then act like you know what it is and apply it - with goofy and even offensive results - to reality….. his writting on “subjective reality” is through and through testimony to PTF confusion and a very poor grasp on anything approaching authentic psychological integration let alone non-dual awareness…. but let's not be too harsh - he is not alone in that confusion - it's a classic one, one that students of integral should be able to recognize.

so good excercise for us all.

good reminder that the map is not the territory.

good reminder to stay grounded and keep your critical thinking close at habnd - or as rumi says so beautifully:

“this sun burning and rain weeping
nourish you and help you grow
keep your intelligence white hot
and your grief glistening
so that your life
will stay fresh….”

another one of the hallmarks of the new age is a complete lack of awareness of the very real, gruelling, humbling, frustrating, scary work necessary for any of the groovy ideas of energetic initiation, satori, kundalini, mind-body integration, non-dual awareness, even self-empowerment, overcoming psycho-social conditioning etc to become something more than a cool poster on your wall that you bought at the concert….

:O)

Colin : Transfigurine
about 22 hours later
Colin said

Hello Julian and other Zaadsters!

I'll apologize in advance: I don't have time this morning to read through all the comments on this blog post. In the interest of going to one of the “sources” directly, though, I am entering your room, Julian, to link to one of the threads on which I've posted a comment that ties directly into this dialog. I appreciate your engagement in this; I do still feel that you're not really hearing what some of us are saying. Or shall I say, several of us do not feel that we are being heard. I encourage you to put on a different hat (communion-centered, perhaps, instead of agentic) in this context.

Pelle : dancing
about 22 hours later
Pelle said

My recent post in the thread Colin mentions offers some criticism to Julian's blog post.

Julian : integral healer
about 23 hours later
Julian said

two things and i will only say them once more:

1) respond to the actual points at hand with a counter analysis of pavlinas actual words in the posts that are being critiqued - i am not interested in much else here…..

failure to do so and devolving into silly rhetoric about right speech based on a humorous and directly relevant moment in a long and detailed sincere  post is evidence of not having any actual counter arguments or intelligent observations on the matter at hand.

i'll spell it  out for you again: the kinds of statements i am crtiquing directly from pavlina are absurd - they are worthy of someone who either 1) went off their meds, 2) is coming down from a drug trip or 3) has had their site hacked by someone parodying the worst elements of the new age. it's funny but it's also a sad commentary….

2) i stand by my sarcastic humor as well as my outrage about his comments. your failure to see how obscene these mistakes are and how insulting to the human condition, not to mention the 33 dead in this case - and focusing instead on whether or not my humor is appropriate - humor which is entirely in context and meant to highlight the absurdity of pavlina's statements is absolutely absurd and barely worth a response.

funny how you take offense at my pillorying pavlina, but not at his statements that i have referenced numerous times in the above post and comments debate - wow!

something is deeply amiss…..

talk about the ideas and their implications.

talk about any number of points that have been made above. if you disagree make a counter argument that is not obfuscating the actual issue at hand: i don't care about the rest of pavlina's work (though i will review it) i am commenting on these actual posts. you may not like my sarcsasm, outrage, righteousness, humnor etc - i don't care - respond to content (if you can) and get over yourself. :O)

here:

do you agree with SP on this?

what did you think about what stuart said in his video?

what do you think about wilber and davis' IN dialog?

if you suppoosed integralites diasagree with what they are saying, wow (!) i am all ears - but  you had better make a really strong and nuanced case if you expect to be taken seriously, no? ummm remember who they are….

do you see the problem of new age dissociation in the kinds of comments steve is making?

do you see the difference between non-dual awareness and dissociative denial?

stick
to
the
point
.

Hokai : In Absentia
1 day later
Hokai said

Hi, Julian. I've made my opinion quite clear early at my blog and later with more detail at the VA Tech / Pavlina thread discussion. So i will just make few brief remarks here for the record. Your post is excellent as far as it goes to clarify the perversity inherent in various strands of newage confusion. I don't find your sarcasm and/or outrage misplaced, and would probably go even further on some points if I wasn't so shy. But then, this is not an appropriate forum for such com/passionate disclosures, if you know what I mean. Thank you for another raising of standards in the ways we go about establishing an integrally informed discourse, that is also not afraid of being misunderstood. Keep it going.

Godspeed,

Hokai

ebuddha : Non-Dual tech trainer
1 day later
ebuddha said

“respond to the actual points at hand with a counter analysis of pavlinas actual words in the posts that are being critiqued - i am not interested in much else here…..”

Ah, but that's the thing - I've provided quotes, and you haven't touched the quotes I've provided, but have simply reiterated your position on OTHER quotes!  Which, as I've said, I agree with, in the main, with some exceptions. 

I'm not upset myself, just engaging in discussion.  Dramatic outrage over what Steve Pavlina says, , rather say, what certain gurus ACTUALLY DO, in my own opinion, is misplaced.    I do see that this is a chosen metier for you, so I do understand why you keep engaging in it.

But at any rate - outside of making choices in what one is outraged about - as funny and great as your takedown, and Stu' video is  (I was laughing heartily through most of Stu's last Stuart Davis show, which starts out with one of the three versions of Stu thinking anoher version pink), to a degree, it's a strawman view of Pavlina's subjective reality. 

Pavlina acknowledges up front, he is dealing with ONE narrow specrum - self development.  Manifestation.  Self-improvement.

This means, by design, he ISN'T engaging in history, developmental theory, the way of the world, EXCEPT for, how it impinges upon personal growth.

And again, by the way, I have a lot of the same issues, as I'm detailing, regarding his posts on self-discipline, one of the cornerstones of personal development.    He is already gearing his posts about, and to, highly functional people.  And not dealing with heavy-duty pscyhological scarring, or deep stuckness in a person (which I, like you, will continue to criticize, in where he is coming from.)   See you're not WRONG, only PARTIAL!  :)

And, re: the psychic thing, yeah, we will disagree on that.  I could no more agree, than if you told me the color red doesn't exist, due to my experiences.   I would caution you not to objectify myself, or others who think the way I do, as  “wishful thinking combined with selective memory…”, but consider that, perhaps, there is a there there.

I would recommend reading the Future of the Body, maybe it will help you out by loosening some of your certainties in this.

Nice chattin!

Julian : integral healer
1 day later
Julian said

ebuddha - i was not directing my most recent comments to you.

i love The Future of the Body.

i agree with your point about gurus.

the angle you are taking is for me somehwat beside the point and was not a dialog i wanted to get into here - i have directed you to other posts of mine where i express my opinions about those issues.

one detail:  there is no way of knowing who is reading blogs on the internet and the new age is filled with highly functional people who are also rather deeply scarred psychologically - it's particularly suited to that kind of set up…

i would go so far as to say that most people in the self-improvement/”maifestation” market (as you describe it) have yet to do psychological integrative shadow work and/or serious spiritual practice and are prone to a lack of critical thinking, susceptible to magical thinking, and have not yet developed a strong link between their cognitive development, psychological awareness and existential honesty about reality.

in fact i would say that most people catering to/writing for that market are at the stage that is as i just described…

there are specific initiations that one goes through after which either speaking or buying the kinds of ideas i am critiquing here becomes no longer possible - it's as simple as that…

and we are not strawman-ing pavlina's “subjective reality” we are out and out critiquing it for the shallow PTF BS that it is…. there is nothing fallacious about the position we are attributing to him based on his explicit statements.

Julian : integral healer
1 day later
Julian said

hokai thanks for the input. good to see you here!

Colin : Transfigurine
1 day later
Colin said

Wow.

You
simply
can't
hear.

I agreed in the VA Tech / Pavlina thread, as I did in my post, that Pavlina has some fundamental flaws in his understanding based on some key points in his blog. Perhaps you didn't HEAR that.

Funny, Julian, I don't know you at all, except for what I've read in a couple of threads regarding Pavlina in which I see an overly antagonistic style, and what I've heard directly from others about your abrasive style. Now I hear that even more loud and clear. Thank you for making your point clear.

My point is not about whether you are displaying correct knowledge. My point is that, in this context only, you are lacking wisdom.

And that is all I'll say. Given the likely range of counterpoints from you or complete lack thereof, you shant expect to see me here again. Good day to you.

ebuddha : Non-Dual tech trainer
1 day later
ebuddha said

A couple of clarity points - “ebuddha - i was not directing my most recent comments to you.”

That is simply not accurate. This had to be in response to me, in fact, your comment is specifically to my psychic question here - “i have no reason to believe in psychic abilities and i think people mostly unconsciously trick themselves into the vast majority of synchronicities and psychic evidences. it’s a kind of wishful thinking combined with selective memory”.  That is a direct response, in the same sentence, to my question.

So yes, this comment was directed, specifically around my psychic belief question.

“and we are not strawman-ing pavlina's “subjective reality” we are out and out critiquing it for the shallow PTF BS that it is…. there is nothing fallacious about the position we are attributing to him based on his explicit statements.”

Well, that's a nice assertion, but the definition is:  ”straw man argument is an informal fallacy based on misrepresentation of an opponent's position. To “set up a straw man” or “set up a straw-man argument” is to create a position that is easy to refute, then attribute that position to the opponent.”

I will again say, you are “out and out critiquing” a version of subjective reality that Pavlina doesn't exactly ascribe to.  His version of subjective reality is not my mom's version of New Age thinking.  And I show that, based on DIFFERENT quotes.   A more lucid critique would note the different ways that he utlizes subjective reality, depending on the context.  It actually may be a stronger critique, as if Pavlina is using subjective reality for different ends, then it is incoherent anyway, as a philosophy.

My observation remains you aren't critiquing fully, but only partially.

Now, of course, this probably means nothing more than his philosophy - such as it - isn't coherent - but you make the mistake of criticizing from partial analysis.   At least that's how I see it.

Again, I know you have a lot coming at you from many directions, so I'll drop this for now.  Clearly, we agree on much much much more, than we disagree on, am I'm glad for that!

For me, the important question is, the mechanics around intentional manifestation.  So I'll concentrate on that again.  The possibilities are:

a.  Responsible magical perspective:  The universe “responds” to a person;s shift in energy/awareness/thoughts, the same way that light resolves into particles/waves, depending on how you look at it.  this is the straight out magical perspective, in that there are vibratory currents in oneself, that attract and repel, like vibratory currents in one's life.   Take responsibility for the energies in oneself, the energies in the world will change automatically.

Criticism is - you virtually ignore the physical world to latch onto “thoughts” “vibrations”, as the KEY - ignoring the vast embedded universe, where things happen at the level they happen, because of the LAWS of those levels.
b.  The Tony Robbins perspective.  Magic is bunk, but, you can model your behavior in successful fashion, to call forth the results you want from yourself/life.  So you can alter your behavior into successful behavior (for different purposes) that achieves positive results.  *Functionally* this isn't too different than the magical interpretation, as the behavior altering that occurs in the individual, and the NLP guys says the behavior has been altered, and altered successfully to achieve positive results, while the magical guy says the internal vibration you are giving off (or your thoughts) have been altered, thus “attracting” the right result. 

But the NLP, of course,  is more practical, as it takes into account you can MODEL INCORRECTLY, thus you have to keep altering your behavior in response to feedback.  NOTE:  Pavlina tends to straddle both A and B, in his practical injunction in 'what a person needs to do”, but philosophically intrepets things as A.

The criticism of both A and B interpretations is that again, the developmental model of psychology isn't taken into account, or the physical or social framework that one is embedded in, isn't taken into account either.   You can't tell a suicidal guy “have a nice day”, or “change your thoughts”, as the dysfunction is happening on a level that is NOT ALTERABLE.  You can't tell a secular woman living in Afghanistan to throw off her veil, and live freely, because she will be killed.   So both A and B are embedded in an already free economy and social situation - where you aren't deeply impinged upon either psychologically, or socially.

c.  The integral framework.  We recognize the truths of each realm.  We recognize and acknowledge the physical laws. We recognize the developmental model.  We recognize the importance of social institutions in which we swim.  We recognize the illuminations of the spirit.  We recognize when progress happens.  And we recognize the mystery of all this, including psychic phemomena which happens, or the mysterious, which happens as well.

For the interal person - based in the best philosophy - even still, a very skilled, bright, competent person - say a master of modeling behavior, or even a person who is a master of implementing even more SUCCESSFULNEW behavior in the world - as Pavlina does - is useful, in his practical injunctions.   Though his philosophy may be f'd up.

And that's how I find him interesting.  That, and little things like accomplished chaos magicians, who can “manifest results” with their spells, that defy any rational explanation, and sound a lot like Pavlina's theory A above.  Those I also want to account for.

Julian : integral healer
1 day later
Julian said

ebuddha- nice rigor you are gettting into!


i do hear you saying that you find pavlina's philosophy f*ed up…. ok then.

as you know- actually we are critiquing what he said about VA Tech - not any of the other quotes you are offering. that's simple.

no straw man there, right? we are refuting his actual statements not attributing something else to him.

partial analysis? are you seriously suggesting that in order to critique say george w.bush' lies about the reasons to go to war. WMD etc i would have to read everything he had ever said on other subjects as well? so if maybe he didn't lie about something else it wouuld impact whether or not i could say he was lying about iraq and WMD……. i don't see the relevance at all.

other statments on other subjects are perhaps interesting, but actually beside the point. as i have said before - it matters little if pavlina can talk intelligently on all manner of other things - that's not what i am writing about - mine and stuart's, colin's and i think ken's (based on the IN chat with SD) critique of him is based on what he has said on THIS subject - that's what the blogpost above is about. it's not about pavlina even, it's about differentiating integral (even integrated) interpretations of this sort of tragedy from the very bad, verging on obscene new age interpretations such as the one pavlina gave….

as to your astute summary of varying positions on so-called “manifestation” - nicely done.

when i said i wan't directing certain comments at you i meant something diffferent than you thought - but that's ok…

anyway my friend- i appreciate your energy invested here - but we are ultimately having two different conversations.

have a great weekend.

Delia : rara avis
1 day later
Delia said

Pre-emptory disclaimer: I wander a